I first had this challenge recommended to me by a very wise woman who had just celebrated 20 years of thriving, Christ-centered marriage. Looking back, I would say it’s the best thing I did in my first year of marriage because it trained my heart to pray for Clayton and affirm the best in him at a time when it was easier for me to criticize his faults and try to “fix” him. I don’t know about you, but I constantly need to be reminded that only God can change my husband! My job is to pray, encourage, and meet his needs. May this challenge be a blessing to your marriage, as it is to mine!